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生活中的5个球
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5 S# ^ f8 `7 W/ L9 f可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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0 c4 C. O1 ~& D设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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% c, Q \* ~1 e9 c你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。- h) I; r3 B. y* k* ~2 F
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。5 V0 {; N5 |; |% R# O1 q- V% Y1 [ ]
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怎样才能做好?1 @* G4 M3 t2 U
, ?0 u: Q. _2 n- s1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2 L) g* j, b1 c t2 K2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。, y$ W2 u q9 D7 G" ]" U) Q. {$ T7 N$ K
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。. @# _8 e! {* T2 U! h/ K
% r& v) X/ Y3 z, r, M7 D" B' E9 e4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。. {- |) X$ b2 Z! D3 l
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5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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. E6 |5 X9 |+ r; R5 u4 g' ?6 E6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 & @, E) A% T# D: G. o
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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* \( ]+ b g+ @5 _0 \5 S9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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2 ?" ^ h! M4 x; B g7 h11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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; a9 ], t+ l9 ^% S12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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# p& ^ u* x, d9 w; ?. {2 |Five Balls Of Life
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It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:0 N+ Z( P1 F0 \& E5 U; |4 s
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
7 H4 ^. X9 C) Y/ i/ ^You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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k6 V0 G5 T% BYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
+ F$ b/ q0 q% l/ L5 o- HThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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6 m) X0 v# O" C c1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.& i2 j' C! g0 A% X" E/ i* q! D
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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! B G. X T0 j! n& }7 W- L3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.7 A" C% C) T/ J3 b7 h
3 d9 _, U; I: B4 R) b$ H4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.8 n" l$ p; A& Y, F
$ v+ X0 ^, Y4 W0 ?8 y# V5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.3 M4 @8 V9 Y9 u5 D3 H
" r/ _/ G# y* T$ A6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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U7 H' K' \- X4 x8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings." C6 w8 W2 `* `+ P" I
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.& c& r8 E7 s" H' H8 {
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.; M8 Y* n- m2 v4 x) x; K! L
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.& L9 v1 _7 T7 {# m; _3 k: S" a
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.9 M" B& u9 \+ ^9 [
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