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生活中的5个球6 S9 I; h% c d5 H
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。- u0 D0 n- }% T7 n( H4 y& {# n! r+ b
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你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。 ]$ X% g) I/ j
/ G" O8 N7 C7 z8 Z w你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。4 Y5 ~( |( [" T, S0 P
# M* v' N b, T/ H ~怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。9 \6 c% h6 q7 G9 m3 L g
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4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。+ O9 X- c- N2 z) x! I: T) I3 q
s0 I+ x& q0 g L3 W1 X5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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K+ _2 @, C R' v1 F6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。! o; B: w" u1 [+ a' v# M
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 3 Y6 K9 ]' X: |2 }4 [* M
. @7 b. z x0 o N% c2 x8 f1 `8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。3 J! w% r. i% M: e1 c- {
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。- {( L: {2 e9 K# Y7 m
5 b9 j B0 C7 V9 T i4 K1 a10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。% f* n- t ^. B. `
. _% w2 R# D2 O+ j11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。6 b& A. Q: s7 q! K3 R+ c" _* O1 J" K! Q
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:
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Five Balls Of Life: z* _7 J. i1 S. O
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.8 M; T4 P# f. V. ^) ^* {
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
( T, e; O' O. _1 U3 V% Q9 eYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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5 @' @4 T p' s! u* ?( _& c5 ^You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
4 @# J1 l% k1 K& a0 pThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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7 A9 X" J2 R( ]0 `" i& O2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you." w2 `2 e! \! A1 T$ c1 F$ P
5 {# j, H% j6 Z- B+ Y, r% h0 M3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.4 Z5 @" ]3 [2 b5 a/ D, J+ K
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. J1 P0 {$ F. h2 h4 A6 i
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.$ }* i! W) C& _& E) @
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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3 P. P4 t& `) F6 ?) I6 c5 \8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.# z" k& t/ |) Q3 N9 {% ^
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.8 ~* W4 q3 E' K4 z8 j" w" n
$ J' o8 g: A" k( t# M8 y11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.$ J3 [8 z' G' o5 e7 j1 F0 B
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